The wedding mania is finally over and the dust has started to settle. We're back from our honeymoon and life is back to normal.

Everyone has been asking, does it feel different to be married? This question puzzles me because, why should it feel different? How does marriage change our relationship? The only way marriage has changed our relationship is legally. We are now legally man and wife, if we want to purchase a house, we can...etc.

At the moment, our main focus is purchasing our own place. If all goes well, we should be in our new place by the end of next year. Then with that will come the inevitable question, " when are you two planning to have children?"

There is no right answer to this question no matter what you say. If you tell the person asking, " we want to wait a few years..." they will start lecturing you on how you should not wait so long ....etc. If you say you're planning to have kids soon, they will tell you that you're still young and should wait a few years. So you see, there is no right answer.